ז כִּיבּוּד אַב וָאֵם. רִבִּי אַבָּהוּ בְשֵׁם רִבִּי יוֹחָנָן שָׁאֲלוּ אֶת רִבִּי אֱלִיעֶזֶר עַד הֵיכַן הוּא כִּיבּוּד אַב וְאֵם. אָמַר לָהֶן וְלִי אַתֶּם שׁוֹאֲלִין לְכוּ וְשַׁאֲלוּ אֶת דָּמָה בֶן נְתִינָה. דָּמָה בֶן נְתִינָה רֹאשׁ פַּטֵרבּוּלֵי הָיָה. פַּעַם אַחַת הָיְתָה אִמּוֹ מְסַטְּרָתוֹ בִּפְנֵי כָּל בּוּלֵי [שֶׁלּוֹ] וְנָפַל קוֹרְדִּקוֹן שֶׁלָּהּ מִיָּדָהּ וְהוֹשִׁיט לָהּ שֶׁלֹּא תִצְטָעֵר. אָמַר רִבִּי חִזְקִיָּה גּוֹי אַשְׁקְלוֹנִי הָיָה וְרֹאשׁ פַּטֵרבּוּלֵי הָיָה וְאֶבֶן שֶׁיָּשַׁב עָלֶיהָ אָבִיו לֹא יָשַׁב עָלֶיהָ מִיָּמָיו. וְכֵיוָן שֶׁמֵּת אָבִיו עָשָׂה אוֹתָה יִרְאָה שֶׁלּוֹ. פַּעַם אַחַת אָבְדָה יָשְׁפֶה שֶׁל בִּנְיָמִן. אָמְרוּ מַאן דְּאִית לֵיהּ טָבָא דִּכְוָותָהּ. אָמְרוּ אִית לְדָמָה בֶּן נְתִינָה. אָזְלוּן לְגַבֵּיהּ וּפָסְקוּ עִמֵּיהּ בְּמֵאָה דֵּינָר סְלִיק בְּעִי מַיְיתָהּ לָהוּ וְאַשְׁכָּח אָבוּהּ דָּמִיךְ וְאִית דַּאֲמְרִין מַפְתְחָא דְּתֵיבוּתָא הֲוָה יְתִיב גַּו אֶצְבְּעָתֵיהּ דְּאָבוֹי. וְאִית דַּמְרִין רִיגְלֵיהּ דְּאָבוּהּ הֲוַות פְּשִׁיטָא עַל תֵּיבוּתָא. נְחַת לְגַבּוֹן אֲמַר לוֹן לָא יְכִילִית מַיְיתוּתֵיהּ לְכוֹן. אָמְרוּ דִּילְמָא דּוּ בְּעִי פְרִיטִין טוּבָן אַסְקוּנֵיהּ לְמָאתַיִם אַסְקוּנֵיהּ לְאֶלֶף. כֵּיוָן דְּאִיתְעִיר אָבוּהּ מִן שִׁינְתֵּיהּ סְלִק וְאֵייתוֹתֵיהּ לוֹן. בְעוּ מַיְיתוּן לֵיהּ כִּפְסִיקוּ לֵיהּ אֲחַרָיָיא וְלָא קְבִיל עָלוֹי. אֲמַר מַה אֲנָא מַזְבִּין לְכוֹן אִיקְרָא דְּאָבָהָתִי בִפְרִיטִין אֵינִי נֶהֱנֶה מִכְּבוֹד אֲבוֹתַיי כְּלוּם. מַה פָרַע לוֹ הַקָּדוֹשׁ בָּרוּךְ הוּא שָׂכָר. אָמַר רִבִּי יוֹסֵי בֵּי רִבִּי בוּן בּוֹ בַלַּיְלָה יָלְדָה פָרָתוֹ פָרָה אֲדוּמָה. וְשָקְלוּ לוֹ יִשְׂרָאֵל מִשְׁקָלָהּ זָהָב וּנְטָלוּהָ. אָמַר רִבִּי שַׁבְּתָי כְּתִיב וּמִשְׁפָּט וְרֹב צְדָקָה לֹא יַעֲנֶה. אֵין הַקָּדוֹשׁ בָּרוּךְ הוּא מַשְׁהֵא מַתַּן שְׂכָרָן שֶׁל עוֹשֵׂי מִצְוֹת בַּגּוֹיִם.
7 “Honoring father and mother.” Rebbi Abbahu in the name of Rebbi Joḥanan: They asked Rebbi Eliezer, how far does honoring father and mother go? He said to them, you are asking me? Go and ask Dama ben Netinah. Dama ben Netinah was the head of the city council. Once his mother was slapping him in front of the entire council and a slipper fell from her hand, and he handed it back to her so that she should feel no inconvenience. Rebbi Ḥizqiah said: He was a Gentile from Ascalon and the head of the city council. He never sat on the stone on which his father used to sit and when his father died, he worshipped the stone. Once the jaspis of Benjamin was lost. They inquired, who would have one of similar quality? They were informed that Dama ben Netinah did. They went to him and and agreed on 100 denars. He went to the upper floor to bring it and found his father sleeping. Some say that the key to the chest was in his father’s fingers; some say his father’s foot was resting on the chest. He descended to them and told them: I could not bring it to you. They thought, maybe he wants more money, and raised the price to two hundred, then to a thousand. When his father woke up from his sleep, he went up and brought it to them. They wanted to give him according to the amount mentioned last, but he refused. He said: Do I sell my father’s honor for money? I will not have any advantage from honoring my father. What reward did the Holy One, praise to Him, give him? Rebbi Yose bar Abun said: The following night, his cow gave birth to a red heifer and Israel gave him its weight in gold and took it. Rebbi Sabbatai said (<i>Job</i> 37:23): “Justice and much charity He will not suppress.” The Holy One, praise to Him, will not wait to give the reward for good deeds to the Gentiles.